Perfectionism is not your friend
I’ve been a perfectionist for as long as I remember and it’s not been a great asset to have. On the one hand, it’s good to perfect something you’re working on, but on the other, it can take weeks or even months to create something you’re dying to get out there. But if you wait too long, the ship will sail, and you could lose out.
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you wouldn't believe what a
perfectionist I am and then that's not
me kind of being a big head the problem
of perfectionism is that it doesn't help
you it's not your friend if you try to
perfect everything you do you'll never
get it done
you'll never ship it now there was a
video that came up on my youtube feed
that talked about this and it kind of
got me thinking with some of the clients
that I'm working with but more
specifically two people I know and I
know they'll be watching this video and
they're both perfectionists just like me
and I've been trying to explain to them
and it has nothing to do with working
with me or projects with me but it they
were asking me that they wanted to
create videos and and I just basically
said just start it
don't wait I waited four years before I
started making these videos now if you
go back and look at the videos that I've
created I wish I could delete them but
I'm not going to because that was me
then it's not me now as you've noticed
my videos have completely have
completely changed and I found my voice
and I found my footing in this whole
space and this is what I want to create
but it takes time to do that if you wait
if I had waited to perfect what I think
is perfect right now I wouldn't have
made the videos that I did and I
wouldn't have learnt the things that
I've learnt making these videos so I say
to these two people who shall remain
nameless just start doing it don't
bother waiting because it's kind of
pointless perfectionism is an enemy it's
not actually your friend now going to my
work and what I do with my clients I
find it strange there and I did make a
video about this a while ago about
people it was called square wheels I
think I called the video people I've
been given
an idea at a framework and a workflow to
help them organize their work their
files their emails their tasks their
projects and so on but they're waiting
and I don't think they're waiting
because of anything else anything like
time or money or anything I think
they're just waiting for what they
perceive would be the perfect time to
start this to start organizing and I and
I think it's wrong I think they're they
also are being perfectionist you are
being a perfectionist if you know that
there is an issue know that you want to
do something but then wait that's not
leaving it till later that's just being
a perfectionist now again I've been a
perfectionist all my life and I know I
know that I've lost projects and lost
things along the way because of my
perfectionism but the fact that I just
would especially with these videos I
just let go and got on with it has made
me understand that you can still be a
perfectionist you still have to do good
work but it doesn't mean that you have
to do so much research and and perfect
everything before you ship that writing
that project that that thing that you
want to do so don't wait if you have an
idea in your mind and you really really
want to do it don't wait just get on
with it because time isn't I'm gonna
wait for you anyway that's the video
today hope you're having a great day I
will see you tomorrow which was which it
will be Thursday you know my computer
have a great day as always keep it
simple and stop being a perfectionist
I'll see you tomorrow ciao